The pressures of dating can make it feel like a chore instead of something to embrace and enjoy. Often we get intimidated and we concentrate on what can go wrong instead of what can go right. Dating means putting yourself out there with all the insecurities and uncertainties that go along with it. So it’s no wonder some people would rather hide away than risk getting hurt. But it doesn’t have to be like that.
The key to successful dating is to just go with the flow. Lower your expectations of the date, or better still, don’t have any expectations at all. That way, you’ll be more relaxed and your date is going to see the real you instead of the person you’re pretending to be to impress him. In short, stop treating dates like dates and just have fun.
Here are four ways to do just that: [Read more…]